Thanks for the suggestions but I already knew that women everywhere like self confidence. That wasn't my point and it doesn't change the fact that most Japanese women are as I described them. As for self-excuses to make myself feel better, you can label me as a "loser" or as suspiciously negative and therefore generally unattractive if you want, but again, it won't change Japanese women's strong preference for white men. Happy Reality??? Sorry, but I don't have the privilege of putting on rose coloured glasses. I am happy quite often though: when I'm with people who don't make me have to compensate for not being white (duh).

> grim reality,

> Just want to address one thing in your message.

> You're saying "Japanese women are usually quite racist and will
> only entertain love interest from caucasians".

> I think this is a self-excuse to make you feel better. Any woman that
> likes a man for only physical appearance or a mercedez bens, is not
> worth one night-stand. I agree apperances help sometimes with the
> initial contact. Asian women and Japanese in particular like a man
> with lots of Self Confidence. btw, consider changing the grim with a
> "Happy reality".

> Good luck.