You don't know me, so why do you assume that its an excuse for me to feel better about myself (presumably for having been rejected)? Or are you actually saying that most Japanese women are NOT racist? And who said I am only interested in one night stands?

Let me get this straight: if you're negative about romance then it must mean that you've failed at it. That makes you a "loser" and losers are not allowed to voice criticism because? Yes, it seems like I'm implicitly being told that I am wrong to conclude that Japanese women are often racist. Or am I simply wrong for mentioning it? If its true, why should I not discuss it? And why, when it is discussed, is the focus immediately shifted to blaming the male for not being self-confident?

Are you in denial about Japanese women and their racism? Why?? And as I mentioned in my last post, my romantic abilities or lack thereof don't change the reality about Japanese women. So why is it so inconceivable that an otherwise romantically successful male would bring up Japanese racism? Anyway, I wasn't posting about myself (obviously). But if you think I need the advice of being self-confident, then thanks,I guess (??).

> grim reality,

> Just want to address one thing in your message.

> You're saying "Japanese women are usually quite racist and will
> only entertain love interest from caucasians".

> I think this is a self-excuse to make you feel better. Any woman that
> likes a man for only physical appearance or a mercedez bens, is not
> worth one night-stand. I agree apperances help sometimes with the
> initial contact. Asian women and Japanese in particular like a man
> with lots of Self Confidence. btw, consider changing the grim with a
> "Happy reality".

> Good luck.