it's great that it worked out for you and your wife! :)

> I have dated both in South Korea and in China. This was (of course)
> before finding the love of my life in China. After dating for a year,
> we got married and are now int he second year of that marriage as TWO
> foreigners living in South Korea. What you say here does happen, but
> it is not really as big a problem as it is made out to be.