I'm very happy that we got that sorted out! I've been here just over two years, and unlike many (most) foreigners, I hang out with and have all Chinese friends. I'm quite amazed at some of the comments about relationships especially remarks about having deep or intellectual discussions with your Chinese "girlfriends". Almost all the females that I know are powerful, thoughtful and thoroughly modern women. They have fine minds and strong opinions about themselves and how they want to live their lives. Some are not the greatest English speakers, nor am I fluent in Chinese (yet). It's still possible to communicate. One of the dearest women in my life speaks very little English but we often spend 24 hours together and are happy and content with each others company.
They are mentally aware and physically beautiful. I'm a very satisfied man to have so many wonderful girls to spend my time with. And they are really fun to be with!