Although I don't particularly like your attitude to foreigners in general, (assuming we are all one & the same)...

...I have to agree that the middle aged men who admittedly come to China looking for a wife/girlfriend should NOT be encouraged to come here under the disguise of a teacher. I have seen the worst possible of these & it was not pretty for any of us, foreigners OR local girls. I am personally ashamed to call myself Canadian in front of the students that knew this man.

TRUE, about how smart most Chinese girls are in predicting what kind of man you are. Sadly though, there are still a few girls here that are looking for an easy ticket to another country.

Perhaps not all these middle aged men coming here expect to find an 18-20yr old "slave" to satisfy all their needs. (Though I must say I hope those that do, die & rot in hell) Maybe some are true. If you are truely a good guy, looking for a life partner, please be realistic & honest with yourself & the women you meet.

PS...the advice about not dating students or fellow teachers is GREAT. The part about it ending at any time...also a fact. Don't exploit the overly trusting young females you meet. Many of them are really not ready & totally unaware of what you are thinking.

> Which mean these guys don't have this. Something is missing within
> their personality, that is why they are coming to China. Chinese
> women beside being "quite beautiful with fantastic figures and
> lovely skin" as you said, are also smart and can smell a loser
> miles away. Guys realize you are not fooling nobody but yourself.
> btw, by using a name like "Dimwit" you sound like someone
> with little self esteem.

> XI