Thanks for your response which I consider very clearly and qualified. And I even agree on most points. KT, male

> DONT COME TO CHINA WITH THE SOLE PURPOSE OF FINDING A WIFE.

> I see that we are all assuming you are male. Sorry. Please clarify if
> are you male or female.

> Dating in China is possible if you are realistic. Don't expect to
> have a 20 yr old gf / slave. If you are looking for this, then
> everyone will see through you & you will end up being frustrated,
> unhappy, and end up in alot of trouble (maybe even not getting out
> alive or in one peice).

> I know tons of foreign men / boys here with girlfriends/wives that
> are honest, good, trustworthy people. BUT I have also seen the
> slimiest, scum of the earth, chauvanistic, losers here, that are
> nothing short of a disgrace to their fellow foreign teachers. Please,
> please, please don't be one of those.

> If you are one of the losers, I hear Thailand & the Phillipines
> are more your style. And more possible you'll find what you are
> looking for.

> If you are one of the honest ones, good luck & I hope you find
> happiness.