Not only George but the other "youngsters" seem to have the erroneous idea that people (men or women) who are over 40 are not just as interested in having "meaningful relationships" as you who are young. One of the nice things about China as I stated in my original post is that there doesn't seem to be such age discrimination here. Let me assure you that all mid age and older people are NOT losers and we do have feelings and desires. The Chinese women/girls that I spend my time with value me as a person and don't look at my age as any sort of barrier to whatever relationship we have.
I like being in China and am here because I choose to be, not because I am a "loser" and am escaping from somewhere else!