> There are some disgusting middle aged men in China now that are an
> embarrassment to us all. They abuse women and they hide under the
> cover of being a teacher. We have even seen postings about it here
> recently. It is sad & I wish there was a way to stop it. For the
> most part, people in China are very intuitive, but some haven't met
> enough foreigners to see the difference. This is a serious problem
> and if those types of men are reading these messages, hopefully they
> will realize that we know their types. Maybe the will not be so
> confident thinking they can get away with it. The trouble is...when
> they do actually get away with it in the beginning, it gives them
> courage to do more. The result is not pretty.

My BIG gripe with your post is this continuing use of the "middle aged" label! Ther MUST be some disgusting young men (and women) in China as well. I'd really like to know what is in your mind when you use this label.
For example, last year I met a 22yo American girl who purposely and with forethought seduced a young Chinese man. Was that a disgusting act? No, the young man quite enjoyed the experience! But if a 40 yo American beds a 22 yo Chinese girl and she quite enjoys it, that gets labeled "disgusting". No I don't think so...consentual sex is consentual...age doesn't matter and nationality doesn't matter...according to me anyhow.