Your Chinese wife and kid (if they are real and not only one of your fakes) is not an issue, and whether they have a poor or farming background isn't relevant either´- to most of the more intelligent among us on here. I would add personally that according to my own experiences in China they mostly are more likeable and honest folks than most of the corrupt officials. To me, the problem with you is really somewhere else.

Pass! You or SB can fight over that parcel. It's SB who has claimed you shouldn't settle for anything less than a Chinese wealthy top executive girlfriend. Mind ,that was an amended idea born out of failure to find any class of Chinese willing to marry him. Fancy offering that advice to FT's. As if accepting any of that man's advice would get you anywhere in life.