As an MGTOW I feel a bit sad for you and the predicament you are in. Married to a Chinese woman and have a four year old kid with her? I just want to ask you something? How could you have been that stupid? I suppose it's the old adage "you make your bed and you have to lie in it". I just found out my bank account has several thousand more in it than I thought. Amazing, I 've spent so much this year and still well in the black.