You have bragged about your Chinese wife and your kid on here many times. You are sounding like a hypocrite now. So you obviously do think that marrying a farm girl from a poor family and having a kid with her is an "achievement". As far as ex-pats in Asia go you are not high up on the totem pole, you better believe it. Once thing I 've noticed in China is that laowai mostly go for the lowest of the low in regard to women, lol!