For some of us getting by happily in China is a lot better than being broke and lonely in the west. Or even rich and without a woman in the west. Do you ride the thermals forever crisscrossing the globe to find a wife? I was about 40 and my wife 19(slender beautiful and the brainiest)when we wed.If I had of stayed at home and not gone to China,the best I would have got is a big fat ugly trollop.Think I will take my chances with your prediction that I will be destitute one day.