The humans were clean and living how they should have lived only on the first days when the universe was created. Right after the mistake by Adam and Eve, people started to live through the easier road, the negative side. The sins from the fathers and mothers are being transferred to their children, which means that today every single human has thousands of sins which is the THING which is negative on them which impacts on negative actions and therefore lives. The people today are too weak to fight even against the things they know that are negative for them, for example smoking, drinking alcohol, playing video games etc. It would be impossible to fight against the things that they think are positive but in truth is very negative for example constant dating which is same like divorce. They don't really know what their real purpose is and where the real happiness comes from because they didn't even feel it. The truth is that every human has the same purpose and also the same source of real happiness.

The Real Purpose of Life

The purpose of life which every human can achieve and should strive for is lost in fog just like all other truths about life, death and god. Today the world turned into a world of lies where the first priority is themselves and of course money. People today do anything for money and fame and aren't happy for any situation and strive for more, more and more. By always wanting more it is logical that the person will never be satisfied or feel happiness. Where the real purpose of life is not thinking about the life with 70 years but thinking more big, even after death, infinite years. When people die, the only thing they lose is their body, their mind and soul lives forever, period. The real purpose of life is cleaning all the sins and finally connecting with god which gives infinite happiness for infinite years.

The Real Happiness

As we all know, people today are in a simple word "selfish", even I am sometimes. They want happiness only for themselves which is not the source of real happiness. We all know that when people are striving only for their own happiness they are automatically forgetting about others. People easily forget about the truth and about the feeling of others when they are working on their own achievement, on their own happiness which is always short term. They need something materialistic and something from outside to make them feel happiness where the happiness should come even from small things like feeling the love of flowers or being grateful of having the ability to breathe which is possible only through gods love.

How to Feel Real Happiness and Reach the Real Purpose of Life

- Check your present position and situation

Look at yourself and look at your future, realize the negative habits on yourself and accept that you have them. See the problems you have, the advantages you have. List the things which are beneficial for you and your surrounding, list the thing which are negative for your development.

- Start working!

You know what you have to do. Want a future? Wipe out the things which you don't need immediately, you don't need days, weeks or months to get rid of smoking, drinking, the only thing you need is one moment, one powerful realization. Say to yourself, i really don't need this, what do I get from this?

- Start doing!

The time is never right to start some things, it doesn't matter. The only thing you have to do is to constantly develop yourself. You already know what you have to do. You already know in which growth stage you are, if you are a student, just study.

- Feel what you like

Have something you want to do in the future, something you love to do? What are you waiting for, study that. The earlier you start to study about the thing you like the more advantage you will have later. Don't worry if you still don't know what you want to do in the future. Just keep studying, it will automatically come.

- Feel the things around you

Look at the apple, don't you feel love? It is alive just as we are, waiting to give love. That is the nature, that is the way humans should live. Living for sharing love, accepting every moment as it comes, not fighting against it. Feel the air, that is gods love, we would not be able to breathe without gods love.

- Look at the advantages you have

Got hands? be grateful, you can do any hand work. Feel the heart of people who don't have hands and be grateful. Use them as much as you can and invite other people who are not able to do that to enjoy. Anything you see can be a advantage depending on your attitude.

- Don't fight

Whenever you encounter a struggle, don't think of things the other person did to you, but think of things you possibly did to him/her. The first times it is of course difficult but don't lose the strong will. After five times, you will feel how you positively changed and be proud of yourself.

- Try to fully live and control yourself

Whenever you are walking somewhere, there are times when you feel that somebody else is controlling you. Open your eyes widely and take a deep breath, look at the environment. You will feel happiness and love because of many reasons. You will see how beautiful everything can be.

- Help others without the need to get something back

People today tend to have the mindset that everything they do, they need to get something in return. Change the mindset, when you are doing something for others, don't be like other people, be different. Do positive things not to get something in return but for the sake of helping others. When you evolve like that, you will be able to feel love through every action you do.

- Money and fame is not the real purpose

People worry too much about money. That is because their mindset is designed like that through many years of negative human development. Of course money is important for living, but when you evolve, you will lose the feeling of wanting more money for yourself, but to help others. Look at the people in Africa. I don't need to explain this part. Everyone should live a normal life, but that is not happening. Feel the gods heart just once, and feel how the children in Africa are suffering.

My name is HyunSoung Kim. When I grow up I will be an positive psychologist who helps people choose the positive road. If you have any problems or questions about your life, future and frustrations please feel free to ask me by sending a e-mail to kim_h_soung(at)hotmail.com, it is always my first priority to fully help others.