I have some great news for you my friend. I know there are times in the past or indeed occasions in the future where that little bit of confidence is needed. I should know I have been there. Now however I have learned to deal with life's challenges in a whole new way by following a few simple rules. That is why I want to show you how to get better confidence and self esteem.

1. Think in a positive perspective. If you're in what seems like a difficult position or you're expecting one in the future, maybe start looking at it from a different angle. For example, ask yourself 'how can I make this better?' or what about 'how can I enjoy this process?' Your mind will automatically search for answers.

2. There is no such thing as failure, only feedback. If your business isn't going well then maybe you should change something, for example, if customers are complaining then you can use this as vital feedback rather than seeing it as personal criticism. You're not a failure. If that girl or guy turned you down, does that make you a failure? Of course not. Maybe they don't appreciate what you have to offer. Successful people have setbacks but have learned how to have better confidence and self esteem and this has helped them respond in the right way.

3. Use visualisation techniques. See yourself achieving your goals. Did you ever hear someone say 'Oh? I couldn't see myself doing that.' That certainly doesn't help. If you take time out to visualise you being successful and achieving your goals then there is a greater chance of this coming through.

4. Live in the moment. OK here's the deal. The past has happened, you can't change that and future has yet to happen. So where does that leave you. The answer is that the only time there is the present moment. Try to live for the here and now. Too many people miss the beauty right in front of them in the present moment because their mind is elsewhere, in the past or the future. If you're in the present moment you can respond better to any challenges that may come your way.

5. Make some easy rules to succeed. I'll give you an example. Some people say 'I'll be happy when I get £1 million pounds. What they're effectively saying that until it happens they wouldn't be happy. Why not make a rule like 'I'll be happy when people smile at me' that makes it easier to experience happiness.

My dear friend I sincerely hope that you found the above tips useful and make some improvement in your life. But there's so much more I want to share with you. I am passionate about helping to show you How to get Better Confidence and Self Esteem.
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Best wishes to you and your future!