So many people take life so seriously. I know. I am one of those people. So I decided to make a change. Here is the "how to" piece so you can do it too.

People used to think I was angry a lot because my serious, pondering face seems heavy-I guess.

However, I find myself smiling a lot these days. My life seems so complicated. Events mount up to the point where I could easily feel overwhelmed. That is when I step back and smile and actually laugh out loud--at me--for what I create in my world.

I used to be someone who caused everything big in my life to happen all on the same day! And then I would frenetically scramble to get it all done. Sound familiar? Know anyone like that?

Let me share an example. I recall the time I moved from New Jersey to the Virginia countryside. The day I settled in my house, I launched my first book sales site, my very first Joint Venture launched online! I also bought my first investment property! Oh, but let's not stop there! I was also scheduled to leave for Las Vegas a few hours after I finally got into my house! And, of course, I had to find a place for my cat (in a strange new house in a strange new town) while I was away.

I kept telling myself I would get it all done because I know, in the past, that was my way of life and I always got it all done (while doing myself in, to the point of exhaustion). This time I caught myself getting into overdrive. This time I gave up the frustration and KNEW the Universe would show me how to get it all done without going bonkers in the process.

That is exactly what happened. Abundance poured into my life from completely unexpected places and all fell beautifully into place. I thoroughly enjoyed my time in Las Vegas.

Get this, before leaving New Jersey I felt very disappointed that I was going to miss a special performance by Tim Conway and Harvey Korman in Philadelphia. (I lived near there.) Well, I got to Las Vegas and on my only free night--there they were, Tim Conway and Harvey Korman. I got the last ticket and really enjoyed their show.

What I see so clearly is how giving up my need to feel in control of life allowed me to accept that the Universe is really in control and, well, it all works smoothly when I live in that truth.

Guess what. Going with the flow is easier than swimming upstream!

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