I met a Chinese lady on China love. Like all relationships, you must begin with trust. I began that way, but I always kept my reserve, I read enough about the various scams that could be involved. I am an optimistic person, I had hope that my lady was one of the sincere ones. I went to visit her, she was everthing I had hoped for and more. It was too good to be true. I stayed a month, it was as if Ihad died and gone to heaven. she was 10 years younger than me and was very different form the western women I knew. We had some things in common. All women love to travel, most like to dance, if you like these too, then you have something in common with almost all women. Good food is something that all people like, you also have that in common with them. She apperaed to not be interested in money, she even paid for some of the things on our trips in China. A couple of months later, I went to see here again. This time, by luck, I found some clues to her intent. She left an email on her computer from another man she met on the internet. That one took her to Hong Kong and Tai Shan. She told him the same things she told me. I was curious to know what else she was doing, so I downloaded a spy program to see what she was really up to. I confronted her about the email. I could have written a book of excuses from her response. She insisted that she never met that man, she was only wriring him because her friend was a translator at the agency, so she could make money. None of her stories added up. When I arrived back home, I checked out what she had written. Oh my god! She may as well been a hooker! I learned many new vulgar Chinese words! The spy peogram had time and date stamps, so I knew when she wrote certain things. On my last day, while I was taking a shower in her apartment in Wuhan, she was writing one of her lovers some intimate and vulgar things. She came off as such an innocent, loving girl. I knew it was over then, so what the heck, I confronted her about that. More stories, she insisted that it was "Wuhan slang used in a game called Yoriko. Just for fun, I checked into that, sure enough, a bunch of bulls***. Then she said it was a friend that was visiting that wrote the messeges. Was her friend hiding in the closet while I was taking a shower? SHe was full of denial, she was afraid of losing her cash cow. I thought I would continue the scam, but this time the joke was on her. I made her get rid of her profile on several sites she was on. I thought I should save a few men from her deciet while I was at it. She was crafty in the way she asked for money, never directly, always a story about various calamities. I pretended to be ignorant and not get the hint that she needed money. She was hell bent on getting married quickly. She said she had to interest in coming to the USA. Then all of a sudden, she would be with me, wherever I wanted to be, the USA would be just fine now. What women would stay with a man after he spied on her and confronted her about her other lovers? She must of thought I was real stupid. No, I was only stupid at first. Needless to say, that relationship is over. The details I left out are so funny that I could have written a book about it. I had a better time at the end of out relationship just hearing what she had to say. Some evenings after I QQ'ed with her, I was in pain. Sometimes my sides ached because I laughed so hard at her excuses and her non bending intent not to lose me.
Be very careful.