I remember many Chinese women did not like SB. They knew he had money, and women from lower socio-economic backgrounds would try to persue him. After a while they worked out they would get nothing from him. Very naive of them as far as I am concerned. If you are earning 800 to 1000rmb a month then how can you expect to socialize with wealthy foreigners? I don't think Silverboy was arrogant or selfish. It was his money to spend however he liked. Professional laowai men in China should mix with professional Chinese women.
SB always believed that people were responsible for their own financial security, and he despised those girls who would try to get free meals, clothes, shoes and money from laowai. Life is a two way street, Chinese women must also provide for themselves, he believed this, especially those lazy and greedy women, some of whom were first class English major students who refused to do anything with their skills. It is infuriating to Chinese people when they see a laowai spend 250rmb on a meal. It is something most of them can only dream of.

I also heard SB is in the Philippines now [edited]

Hello Maxwell
You seem to have set yourself up as SB's press secretary? Your mandate seems to be plenty of spin to transform this rough diamond we all know and love for his priceless wisdom, like " Bonk that student ASP" to a well-bred refined Australian(contradiction in terms Hahaha) to one born to mix with the rich and famous and definitely avoid the Hoi polloi and the pink-roomed establishments which he used to enigmatically frequent. Mind you, we all miss him- please tell him to return to China where he belongs.