I do not support nor condone pedophilia. You should look at my previous postings regarding the area of sex. Not all expats behave like this. As such you obviously think that most if not all expats do. I wouldn't call having intimate relationships with someone over the age of 18 criminal. Unethical, yes if you're a middle aged man, but not criminal. You seem to be giving an inordinate amount of credit towards the chinese for being good and being people worthy of your complete trust, I will not say anything more to you on that as I have already made my points clear on how I feel about chinese culture or "culture".

I suggest you actually learn chinese well enough to where you can listen to a conversation in chinese, also you should learn how to read chinese and go to a bookstore and read some of the novels and books regarding politics, the military, and religion. You can then have a more well rounded idea of just how chinese people may think. Not knowing a language well enough can make you susceptible to a distorted view of one side being overtly good.

My viewpoints come from the fact that I know pedophilia as well as child abuse occur in china and within chinese families. This is a fact, not fiction. The reason the girls are so susceptible comes from the very foundation of how they are raised by the so called "traditional" and "cultural" upbringing of chinese parents. They are purposefully kept naive, jaded, and made slow to grow up and take responsiblity for themselves because that makes it easier to control them. Chinese parents purposefully and consciously try to keep their children from being too independent, why don't you show criticism towards them, too?

I don't doubt you may have strong feelings for this. I don't like foreigners coming to china for sex tours any more than you do. But in the end it's still up to the Chinese people themselves to take responsiblity to teach their children to love themselves and see themselves as human beings. It takes two to tango, and you haven't offered up concrete solutions on promoting self love, self knowledge, and firm independence of the spirit. I'm not saying I would have better ideas than you, but looking on both sides you can see how things happen for a reason. I cannot run into bedrooms and drage out every girl who is going to be taken advantage of by an unscrupulous expat, so accusing me of being somehow responsible for their behavior and saying I "condone" it is flawed logic. Hopefully with time you'll realize this.