I'm probably way late to type this and maybe it won't be read. But it's pretty funny how your bashing all of these people pretending you are so innocent. Have you thought that your "bad" experience is maybe karma for you, I don't think sleeping around with people including a married teacher did you any favors. You knew he was married so don't pretend like it's some big surprise to you, especially after posting pictures online of you touching and sitting all over him. He's probably not the first and won't be the last, the whole point of going to other countries to teach IS TO TEACH. Not going out every night, getting drunk, coming into school drunk/hungover and messing around with other teachers. You should probably learn to keep your legs closed who knows what your passing around. If you cared so much about your students then you would have preferred to post pictures of them or comment on their progress in learning English. Instead you were posing in pictures of you, half naked, drunk, drinking or hanging all over different men. Or maybe you should have spent some of your free time actually learing and understanding chinese a little better, you are a guest in their country after all. The fact that you are complaining about a citizen in china not speaking the best English is pathetic and ridiculous, that would be like you at home in England going up to some random teacher and expecting them to have perfect Chinese. Your in their country working, learn the language plain and simple. I'd think you would want to anyway since you care about the students so much, wouldn't you want to be able to speak both languages to the children. In case they don't understand you can describe it better in their native language, or to be able to communicate with the parents and school better. This might sound rude or mean but in this whole long story about your experience there isn't really a single that you did wrong. You can blame everyone else all you want, but you not taking responsibility for anything is wrong and petty especially when obviously you don't have the best moral values or care that other people might be affected in a negative way because of your decisions. Reading this bothered me just like it did for Wayne because that isn't the whole truth, your going to come out trashing other people while your moral compas is pinging on empty. Hopefully somehow you will read over this a few years later realize the part you played, P.S. it's not the victim.