Just because we are non native does that mean we should be treated like the dog?

Sorry you have been ill-used. You should go to China to teach where non-natural English speakers are more and more preferred to the genuine article because understandably they work out cheaper and they always have degrees.

On the downside, the Chinese girls don't provide leisure activities in the same way as Pattayan girls. I have a Russian friend who confirms what you claim and is treated like some low-life reptile......but he says the Pattayan girls make him put up with it all/more than make up for it.

Jolly good luck to you and remember your English is as good as the next man's.