Do it now. Procrastination is a thief. It steals from your present, future, and past. One of the common qualities of unhappy people, is their tendency to constantly put things off. They somehow feel they will have forever to do whatever...

Happy people have developed the habit of, doing it now. They know that the present passing moment may never come to them again, so they work as if they will live forever, but live as if today is their last. One day we will all be right!

If they made a movie of your life what would the title be: he/she Waited or he/she did it now. Yes, there will always be tomorrow, for some of us, but not all of us. Imagine, if this book was the last one you ever got to read.

We wait, for God only knows what, to take action. We spend our lives working in jobs we hate, married to people that push our buttons every waking moment, and we live in climates that tests our endurance to the limits. We are not trees. We can move, quit, find a new partner or change anything we do not like. I am not suggesting a lack of commitment here, only that you take a serious look at what you would like different in your life, and what are you doing about it?

People who are happy don't wait, they act. They do what they can with what they have now. Better to do something now, than waiting to be able to do nothing later. People wait for the right timing to have kids, get married, retire, start their own business. Why? The time will never be right. There will always be something. So get to it, and do it NOW.

Say it now. Un-communicated feelings, attitudes, and emotions mean SQUAT. People don't know how you feel, until you tell them. We, most of us, are not mind readers. We do not know that you love us unless you tell us. We do not know why you are upset unless you tell us. We do not know what your needs, hopes, dreams are unless you communicate them with us.

You would be amazed at how many people hold back words, when words are the only way to let people know what is on your mind. Parents don't tell their children how special they are. Spouses don't take the time to tell their partner how important they are. Employers don't take the time to share positive feedback with their employees, and friends rarely, if ever tell each other that they really care about each other. I guarantee there is someone in your life that wants, needs, even aches for a kind and loving word from you.

Happy people do not assume that the people in their lives know how they feel. They tell them regularly how special and important they are.

Put this book down now and call, write, or walk into the kitchen and tell the special people you care. You will feel better, they will feel better, and you will be well on your way to a happier disposition.

Tim Connor
http://www.timconnor.com