Have you ever come up with a great idea and told someone else about it? What you usually hear is, if I was you, I wouldn’t do that or I don’t think you should try that, blah, blah, blah!

Unfortunately, most people are living their lives based on what others think or on what someone else wants them to do.

I started practicing the Law of Attraction at a fairly young age, because I realized that most of my experience up to that point was based on what others thought and I was attracting based on what they wanted for me.

No matter what, there will still be friends, family etc. that offer their opinions whether you want them or not. In their experience, they are perfectly comfortable with where you are. And I honestly think that most people are acting from their highest sense of love.

Sometimes moving forward in life makes certain people feel that you won’t be part of their life anymore. And sometimes they are just acting from unresolved fear.

But remember this:

Whatever the reasons are for the way people may be relating with you, you must stick to the plan!

I do think it’s important to make loved ones feel comfortable about what you are doing. If you can, include them in some of your plans.

If you’ve decided on a business you wanted to start, or pursing that long forgotten hobby, you must stay focused because you attract what you think about most, good or bad.

You can stick to the plan by practicing these simple techniques.

1. Keep your mind so focused on what you want, that there’s no room to focus on what others are thinking about you. Be specific.
2. Visualize your desire in as much detail as possible.
3. When doubt moves in, immediately change your thoughts to something positive
4. Spend some quiet time alone meditating
5. Don’t forget to do something that makes you feel good. This really raises your energy and makes it easier to attract what you want.

Everyone views the world differently and it’s up to you to create your own reality. Don’t get me wrong, learning from others has tremendous value. I’ve learned some of life’s greatest lessons from others. And sometimes the opinions of others may or may not be valid, but I think you’ll know the difference. The ultimate decision is still up to you.

Decide now what you should hold on to or let go of. You’re the best guide in your life.

Stick to the plan and remember:

Your inner world will always reflect your outer world.

Ruth Brown
http://www.selfgrowthsecrets.com