Hello there my friend. I want to share with you some great tips that will help you build self confidence and personal poise. I am sure there are times in life when you wish you had that little bit of extra confidence and composure in certain situations. Very often in everyday life the difference between achieving our goals and not is confidence. That is why I am here today to help you by sharing some great tips that I use to help me to be more confidence and self assured.

1 Beliefs tell you what's possible and what's not possible. You will act according to what you believe, good or bad. For example, if you believe that you will not be able to swim then the chances are that's exactly what will happen. What if you believed that achieving your goals was within reach and achievable. Make your beliefs consistent with your goals. Wouldn't it be easier to achieve them? Remember you will act according to your beliefs.

2 Imagination- See yourself being really confident and self assured and achieving your goals. What do you look like, how do you speak, how do others respond to you. Take time out every single day to imagine a more confident and successful you. If it is real in your mind soon it will become an actual reality. You will act it out in real life.

3 There's only one you- be good to yourself. Don't be so hard on yourself. There must have been a time in your life when you did something really confidently or you were calm and self assured. How did it feel? What if you recalled those confident feelings and you applied those feelings to new areas in your life then wouldn't you feel more confident? Look at yourself in the mirror and see that confident you. Do this regularly.

4 Breathing control- sometimes when you want to feel more confident and assured all you have to do is control your breathing better. A deep, controlled breath helps you relax your body and gain more composure.

5 Control over yourself- very often in difficult situations it is very hard to keep composure and personal poise. However, you can control how you react to situations. Take a step back. You may not be able to change certain events in this world but by taking control over how you react to these events can make a massive difference to your life

My dear friend I sincerely hope that you found the above tips useful and make some improvement in your life. But theres so much more I want to share with you. I am passionate about helping you Building Self Confidence and Personal Poise To fulfil your potential, to be the person you always wanted to be and achieve your dreams then I invite you to the Ultimate Guide in Self Confidence. http://www.selfesteemconfidence.info

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Best wishes to you and your future!
Joesph Berovic is highly experienced in the area of self development, self confidence and self esteem. He loves helping people achieve their goals and build high levels of self confidence so that they can live life to the full.