> Anne Wang wrote:

> Cameroon women can bow and kneel to your man when abused and
> insulted, and I dont blame you as you come from a different culture,
> a culture where BIGAMY is legalized. Where some women have to live
> and share a same man till death do them apart. Oh me good teacher,
> Yes, Cameroon women do exist, four to a man as what my former
> Cameroonian teacher told us; he has four wives.
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> Mary D. replied:

> Being one of the four wives of the man I love and loves me is fine
> with me.

> your pathetic case, just learning English and waiting for a saviour,
> more than 2, 3 times your age to come into your life, bed and take
> you out of there.

> I'm working hard for a living away from home, the rewards are worth
> the pain. I could choose who enters my home, bedroom. But then again?
> you will never have a choice.

> Mary D.

Mary, Anne has never written anything about seeking a way out of China. As someone whose wife is Chinese, I resent the insinuation that this is what chinese women marry foreigners for. My wife and I married for love. I really doubt that a man with four wives could possibly love each one of them in the way my wife and I love each other. If you have a problem with what Anne says, please address what she actually says and not some straw man/woman you have set up yourself.

The comment you made about Anne not having a choice who enters her home and bedroom implies that anyone can break into her home and rape her at any time they want simply because you disagree with her ideas. Mary, the comment you made is racist,sexist, and irresponsible - as well as the obvious of being inaccurate.