> What do you mean? a fake wife,
> After a couple of months in the land of the free, she discovers that
> youre old, fat, incredibly unattractive, blah, blah. At the
> beginning tell her that you only want to be her lifes best friend.
> See how long you last around. Enjoy today's fireworks, doesn't last.

> Best of luck, guys

> John and Jane
> taught in China for 8 years

I must be lost in this thread somewhere because I don't see how this fits in with any of the previous statements. But, if it is an attempt at blasting so-called May-december Asian-Western relationships, well the divorce rate among Caucasians is the highest in the world. So far my wife and I have lasted two year - and are the absolute life's best friends we were then - and she hasn't even been to America yet - and neither one of us really wants to go - we are happy to be both employed in south Korea- where we can work most freely and profitably together teaching English. Lots of jealousy and misstatements regarding Asian-American May-December relationships from those not involved in one.