Although you may be right in most of what you say, your tone sounds bitter as well. Then, because of this, you are not all too credible as a messenger, aren't you?

You have become bitter and twisted because you couldn’t get a Chinese wife. It’s hardly surprising you now pretend that that elusive Chinese wife wasn’t worth having in the first place and you never actually remember searching for her anyway, even though there’s posters still around, like Foxy, Turnoi, Dragonized who can well remember your fruitless search for wife, hearth and home.