Instead of posting on teaching and ESL takes this board down to restroom level. You are posting on topics that are only of interest and concern to you personally and that are totally irrelevant for anyone else. It indicates that you have a lot of personal problems yourself. Like your poster friend Fifi. You are at the wrong place on here; there is hardly any intelligent remark to read from the both of you. Since the board is flooded with posts like that it may as well shut down; the two of you make it really useless. The problems you have with marriage are only yours - only yours!